April slump

 So I was reflecting on this last 11 months of my dating life. Truth be told I have kept a record of the guys that I have dated since May 2009. It helps to compare and contrast the gents so I can know what to look for and what to avoid.(Names have been changed to protect the "innocent")
May 2009-Rick Jobs..met at the Rack, went out with twice, was from Indiana...should have known that was not going to work.
July 2009-Sep. 2009- Tad Meemer This was the first guy I met on Match. From Michigan. Cool job, very smart, very sarcastic. I actually really liked this guy, but the timing was not right and it ended with me sending a top ten list. Not my best moment, but this guy was trying to fade out anyhow. I did however get my software back after months of asking. Still kind of bummed that I met this guy when I did, he was very intriguing.
October 2009-Dustin Chan 2nd guy on Match. He was getting his Phd in cancer cell research. Nice guy, smart, but just no chemistry. We went out 3 or 4 times, and then I just stopped returning calls.
Matt Renger-Met this guy at a Halloween party, where he was dressed in a mullet. From Michigan. Super hot, but he thought Beowulf was a werewolf. We went out once.
November-December 2009 Sam Denim -Met on Chemistry-from MO, very liberal, vegan, obsessed with baseball. Interesting guy, but our worlds were different. He had that slightly crazy thing going for him, fun while it lasted. Dumped me via text.... karma for that whole top 10 list thing.
January 2010-Tom Johnson -met at the Rack. Nice, cute, half Morman, not tons of chemistry.
Dan Abalone-nice guy, too intense too soon...bit of a stalker.
February 2010-March 2010-met tshirt guy at the Rack. Instant chemistry, sexy as hell, found out I was a mom....attention faded. He was the first guy since "Tad" that I really felt a strong connection with. But if I found that twice in less than a year, it mustn't be too uncommon....right?? We still play chess with friends...whoohoo.
April 2010- I am currently in a slump of epic proportions. Mostly ok with it, but I look forward to the end of said slump with something better.  In the mean time I am going to A's games, hanging with friends, going to the gym, painting my place, reading, blogging and in sitting on the couch watching tv. Yes I do relax sometimes, it just isn't the best to blog about!

Man Jose

 Last night a few friends and I went to San Jose to see "Tainted Love" play at the Voodoo Lounge. The band is an all '80s cover band, who are phenomenal by the way. The line to get in was filled with twenty-somethings who raided Hot Topic in an attempt to capture the '80 's look. I argue that if you are born in the eighties, you really should be banned from these events. Damn whippersnappers.
  The night was filled with dancing nonetheless, and even a scuffle between a stupid scrunchie wearing chick and my friend Corrina and me. Apparently we invaded her space on the dance floor by the stage. Considering the floor had turned into a mosh-pit-esque scenario, her claims of being wronged were a bit ridiculous. I guess her scrunchie was on too tightly therefore making her irritable. Towards the end of the night, the drunken guys were too aggressive and obnoxious to make the night any fun, so we left with the tunes of Bon Jovi dancing in our heads.
 Still working on getting t-shirt guy out of my system. Not really sure where I thought that one was going. It sucks to click with the guys who are probably not the best for anything stable. There has to be something in between the cute intelligent guys who are man children, and the stable guys who I have no chemistry with. As long as I get it figured out before I hit eighty...